Phil Karanja, popularly known as Director Phil, has shared his journey of self-reflection and growth following his divorce from Kate Actress. Phil Karanja opens up about divorce from Kate Actress. The former couple ended their 10-year relationship in 2023 and have since maintained a peaceful co-parenting arrangement for their daughter. Phil Karanja speaks on life after divorce In an interview on Clearing The Airwaves, Phil revealed the emotional challenges he faced and the introspection that followed his separation. He admitted to grappling with tough questions about himself and the circumstances leading to the divorce. “What should I have done better? Should I have worked on myself? Should I have improved? Never play a blame game,” he said.
Phil disclosed that he sought advice from men who had experienced divorce years earlier but found many of them still harbouring bitterness toward their ex-partners. This realisation became a turning point for him. “You talk to someone who divorced five years ago, and the guy is still bitter. I remember telling myself five years from now, I don’t want to be this angry and bitter at my ex-wife,” Phil explained. Determined not to channel his frustrations outward, Phil focused on personal accountability. “I’m not going to channel my anger and blame on her. I’m going to look at myself. What did I do wrong? I will never focus on her but myself. Divorce has also taken me to that point of looking inwardly. Where did I fall short? Why did I miss this?” he reflected.
by Brian Ajon
