Social media influencer and budding entrepreneur Nurse Judy is questioning why Alma Mutheu would date a man who doesn’t fit her life aspirations only to come and embarrass him online despite trying so hard to showcase how they’re such couple goals through multiple photos shared on their socials.
Judy, a mother of 2, shared her sentiments after one of her Instagram followers sent her a direct message asking the medical practitioner to share with them what she thought about the relationship and the way Alma and her boyfriend, Gift carried themselves during a past interview that has brought so much scrutiny onto their love life.
Responding to this Judy started by reminding netizens that all individuals were different and what might be wrong to you or give one an ick won’t necessarily have the same effect on someone else.
“Well, Like I said before I absolutely respect what every individual believes in, btw nimekam kurespect how each and every one views life. It’s okay to have diff POVs coz we are all different.
I mean, if you want a rich man, of course go for it by all means. There is no award for struggles, but there is another side to it,” started off the globe trotting media personality.
She went on to add that for her, “as long as jamaa anajituma, and you truly love him, support him, give him that push that you are talking about if you see that potential in him instead of showing the world how useless of a man he is just bez he is still at the phase of cost sharing, which I also want to believe, you dated him knowing that very well
Honestly Even when I share my personal journey of where me & my man tumetoana, to where we are now financially, both thriving, the goal is to inspire, motivate and encourage people who might be in the same situation.”
Delving into how the TikToker and content creator handled the situation publicly, Judy faulted Alma Mutheu for belittling her boyfriend in front of hundreds of thousands of people. However, she maintained that she’d be staying neutral in the whole fiasco as one can never truly grasp the intricate details of a relationship they are not in.
“There is nothing wrong with how she feels, kama amechoka amechoka, and that’s okay ,but why embarrass him in public after posing with him for months couple goals pictures ninini?” The mother of two quipped. Clearly as puzzled as the rest of the media users who’ve come across the interview.
Judy added, “Now here is my two cents.
Its perfectly fine to want a man who provides. Let me also say I haven’t watched the full video c0z I rarely sit down to watch those long 2hrs video on YT, so I don’t really have the full picture,& again only the two truly know all the corners of their room!
Mambo ya watu wawili hutawai elewa and that’s why I always choose to remain neutral will never rush to support the woman just because its a woman Brand in the era we live in that’s what most women do,” the budding entrepreneur wrote in part.
Winding up Judy faulted social media for unrealistic standards and corrupting ladies minds.
“I feel matters riship esp someone like me with an experience of 12yrs plus, l wish people took time to approach the matter rationally
NOW! Why would you date a man knowing he is not the type you want financially only to publicly embarrass or demean him, unless its all a script mlikaa chini mkaandika for clout chasing?
Anyway I blame social media, it’s messing up so many marriages and relationships. Women wake to all these videos posing as “empowerment “which sometimes its not exactly that but full of crap and toxicity.
Haidhuru To each their own, vidole zinauma nikitype maneno mingi hapa. Nilishafagia kwangu kukakua kusafi na sambamba acha sasa ninoneshwe na the peace, the love and the harvest of what we planted!” The last of her posts read.
by HANNIE PETRA
