A Kenyan lady has amused netizens on social media by sharing snippets of her conversation with a married man with whom she was romantically involved. A Kenyan lady sparked reactions after sharing her chats with a married lover. The funny video showed how the married man and the lady went from having lovey-dovey text messages while planning their next meet up, to him having an epiphany about his illicit relationship. In the TikTok video, the WhatsApp chats showed the lady expressing her desire to meet the married man, saying she missed seeing him again.
Responding to her message, the married man asked her if he should visit her Kitengela house, insisting he would have to return to Nairobi by 11pm. “I will give you twins,” he cheekily told her before attempting to video call her. Married man blocks lady However, when the lady missed the video call, the man abruptly changed his mind about their relationship and instantly broke up with her, saying he could not handle her. “All the best,” he texted before hitting the block button, much to the dismay of his lover. The Kenyan lady was puzzled, and she desperately asked what she had done to offend him, but her messages did not go through. “What if I have done to you? What have I done?” her messages to him read, but she had been blocked already. Kenyans react to post Her post has elicited varied reactions online, with many asking for more details on what the lady did to offend the married man.
“What did you do? We need a part two of this,” one Kenyan said. Others said it was probably for the best that the man had cut links with her, noting that their relationship was, after all, illicit. A section of ladies in the comments also opined that dealing with married men has never ended well, and it is always best to give them a wide berth. Here are some of the comments: Jm said: “Wait a minute! What did you do? Gives us the full details.” Santa said: “No, but seriously, what did you do? Why spill the tea without offering all the details?” Mwende wrote: “Okay, what about the twins he promised you? Too bad.” Varl said: “It appears he was irked when you failed to pick up his video call.” Treasure said: “Next time, sweetie, don’t be that desperate kwanza for a married man, Sawa.”
Dynamis at play when a partner cheats TUKO reached out to counsellor Jane Mugo to get some insights into the dynamics at play when a spouse cheats on their significant other. She said that in most cases, leaving the marriage due to infidelity is not always the best response to the situation, insisting that every spouse is at fault in case the marriage is plagued by a cheating scandal. “One needs to treat their partner with caution since you don’t know whether you are with the right person or not, and this is something many don’t understand. Do you know we have men investing heavily on their side chicks? Why would he do so?
After all, people need to understand that being together doesn’t mean love brought you together; many factors lead to it,” she told TUKO.co.ke. Jane said that before deciding to leave due to cheating, one should look inward and ask ‘what role did I play?’. “This is because, at times, we are the ones who shove our partners to the side and neglect their needs,” she added.
by Racheal Nyaguthie
