Ever found yourself in a relationship where you’re unsure whether your partner still loves you? The signs may be there, but love has a way of blinding even the smartest people.
More often than not, people choose to ignore the truth to avoid heartbreak. However, according to motivational speaker and pastor Sam West, here are some clear signs that your woman may be unhappy in the relationship or marriage:
1. Limited Conversations
Remember when you used to spend hours talking and sharing stories late into the night? Now, there’s barely anything to talk about.
A woman who is no longer in love will limit conversations and save meaningful discussions for new people she meets. If this is happening, it could be a sign that your relationship is on its last legs.
2. Easily Irritated
When she was in love, she was patient and understanding. Now, the smallest things trigger anger and frustration.
If she seems constantly irritable and short-tempered, it might be time to have a serious conversation and seek solutions before things spiral out of control.
3. Always Tired and Disengaged
A woman who is no longer emotionally invested in the relationship will become physically and emotionally detached.
- She stops cleaning up after you.
- She no longer cares about what time you come home or who you hang out with.
- She seems sluggish and indifferent about things that used to matter to her.
Frankly, there’s nothing more dangerous than a woman who has stopped caring.
4. Lack of Interest in Intimacy
A woman who has fallen out of love will find every possible excuse to avoid intimacy.
She might complain about:
- Fatigue
- Work stress
- Bills
- The kids
- In-laws
- Anything else that helps her avoid being close to you
If this happens, it might be time to reignite the romance and show her that she is valued and loved.
5. She Focuses Solely on Herself
When a woman is no longer invested in the relationship, her focus shifts to herself—and her kids, if she has any.
She may start engaging in activities she never prioritized before, such as:
- Going on girls’ trips
- Joining the gym
- Investing in self-care (doing her hair, nails, and dressing up more often)
If you notice these changes, take the time to find out what’s bothering her.
Final Thoughts
While no one should get into a relationship expecting their partner to be the sole source of their happiness, it is still your responsibility to ensure your significant other feels loved and appreciated.
Because at the end of the day, a happy wife equals a happy life.
by PENINAH NJOKI
