He was reacting to a message from a male fan who felt guilty for cheating on his girlfriend with her friend.
*Kevo wrote saying
‘I love my girlfriend and she is the one I want to marry. One day we were at a friend’s place and we started playing truth or dare.
I was dared to kiss my girlfriend’s friend. Everyone was cool with it so I did it, I can’t lie it was good.
After that, the lady and I started linking up and it was addictive. I now think I have a cheating problem because I have had a few sneaky links (with other people here and there”
Kevo (not his real name) says he has since cut ties with his girlfriend’s friend but is afraid she might report him.
‘It was just for fun but I broke up with her.
I am afraid that she might tell my girlfriend.
I love my girlfriend emotionally but the other woman is just physical.
How do I show her that it is possible to love someone and still cheat on them?”
Kerry Martin responded to the fan saying.
“Babes cannot understand that sometimes when a guy cheats sometimes it’s just a physical attraction.
I would never take a person am cheating with on a date. It’s all physical.
After that, you even love your babe more.”
He is a good guy, it shows he is thinking about his girlfriend’s feelings.”
Kwambox responded saying Kevo intentionally put himself in the predicament he is currently in.
‘I have told you to stop playing truth or dare especially if you are in a relationship.
It’s fun for people who are single.
If it were me they would have gone home pamoja (the man and the girlfriend’s friend.)
There are different reasons why people cheat, some of these are
- Unhappiness/Dissatisfaction
- Feeling unappreciated
- Lack of boundaries
- Lust
- Opportunity
- Domestic violence
- Emotional abuse
- Emotional and/or physical disconnect
- Financial pressures
- Lack of communication
- Lack of commitment
- Boredom
- Body image/aging
- Revenge
Below are some of the reactions
maria.andaye: Am in this with Kerry coz how do u let ur guy go to such and give him the permission…..so he shouldn’t feel sorry own up and figure a way to get her back if it might happen.
aurelia_the_billionaire: Hiyo ni umalaya😂😂😂
miss_african2306: Kwani a boy ajui kuwa yuko kwa relationship It’s all about boundaries and standards of a person how much he values the relationship. On my view.
mwakijames: Such parties you are advised to leave before the devil appears.
gildrips1: The forbidden fruit… I think if someone is loyal to you they won’t even allow someone to touch you, and this “girlfriend” of his allowed the kissing, food for thought.
What advise do you have for Kevo?
by PENINAH NJOKI
