Your soulmate is not someone else's husband - Muthoni wa Mukiri

 

Life coach Muthoni wa Mukiri

Life coach Muthoni wa Mukiri has a few words for girls in Nairobi about their choice of dating partners.

She believes she has a life saving tip to help avoid future problems in relationships.

In a video on her social media, Muthoni appealed to side chicks.

"So if you are a side chick,  and your man is supposed to leave his wife for you. He is supposed to come and marry you, I just want you to know that you are getting married to a man who cheats on his wife"

She continued to provide caution

"So when you get married, when you become his wife, just know that. Number two, the things he has told you about her,, oh she yells, oh she is not beautiful as you, alijiachilia the baby came, you're also human, you also have faults, and he will start realizing those things when you move in together"

Adding

"So just know that man doesn't have the staying power. it's easier to replace you than work on the issue sin the marriage. '

The ex-media personality spoke out further on the matter

"And lastly do you guys know about the 80/20 rule where he's getting the ...the reason he has a side chick is because he's getting the 80 per cent at home. The comfort, the clothes are ironed, there is food, the babies are there, The only thing he's looking for out here is the 20 per cent."

Explaining her reasoning, Muthoni added

'"So, you are the 20 per cent. The excitement, the honeymoon phase, the clubbing or all those things that he can't get from home. So, you are only the 20 per cent and at 20 % can't cannot sustain that marriage"

"That's why most men when they go move in with the side chick, most of them end up coming back to their first wife. If she's going to take him back, And even the marriages we've seen out here, the second wife marriages, the celebrities even who've come here to say they are second wives, Where has that even gone? Where?"

"Nowhere" she answers.

"So just be careful and look out for yourself, Wachana na hizi stori za married men" she ends her summon

by MAUREEN WARUINGE