Kenyan Vlogger Bravin Yuri has advised men who can’t afford to provide a woman not to get married.
According to him, a woman starts questioning things when she is asked to contribute 50/50 in a relationship.
“If you can’t provide for a woman you’re marrying, you have no business marrying. That woman came from her father’s house where she was being fed, protected, and sheltered, she is not a charity case. If you make a woman start believing she should do things in the house herself by enforcing your 50/50. “
Adding:
“That is when she will also ask for 50/50 house chores. She will start questioning why she even needs you in the first place if she can carry the load you should be carrying. These questions become intentions and later decisions. This is when questions like’ Why should I keep a whole pig when I just need a ‘sausage’ start flying.”
Yuri went on to advise men not to get too comfortable, adding;
“There are things a man should do and going against these sell you short. These 4P’s are
Precede (Lead in that house.
Provide.
Protect
Penetrate (Satisfying your woman in bed.”
He further advised men not to expect traditional women if they can’t completely provide.
“Lastly do not except a traditional woman in the house when you can’t act like the traditional man.
These days wokeness has made you believe in so many things and you end up destroying your relationships and marriage because of some of these ideas.”
BY PENINAH NJOKI