"I Chased My Boyfriend Away after He Visited Me Empty-Handed": Relationship Expert Advises

 

Anonymous wrote: Yesterday, I received a call just before leaving church. I knew this guy wanted to come for a sleepover. I received it well, and he said he had missed me. I asked him why he never called or texted me since November. I knew I would do something to him that would make him never treat another woman like that. He came around 5 pm., and after 25 minutes, the food was ready, and he ate and even finished before me. I asked what he had brought since he left me when I was broke, and he said he would be providing. However, when I asked him to show his true colours and start providing, he said he would send me KSh 3000 by the end of the week. I told him not to take me as the lady of the night, and I opened the door for him to leave. He was shocked; took his bag, and left  A couple quarelling.  Jane Murimi is a relationship and marriage expert. She is also an accomplished teacher, wife, and mother of two.  TUKO.co.ke sought Jane Murimi to share her thoughts on the matter and advise the young couple. Is it okay for ladies to invite boyfriends to their houses? "This sounds strange. With the unending murders, one has the guts to invite an estranged lover to her house? Anyway, that said...he could have been a leech, but also, we can't rule out the probability of him trying to test his former girlfriend's patience," shared Murimi. "I would advise ladies not to try this at home. Supposing the guy got intimidated by the lady's arrogance? All in all, men need to man up. He ought to have at least invited the lady somewhere outside her home for assurance. Going to her home was ill-informed," she added.  Disclaimer: The advice given in this article is general in nature and is not intended to influence readers' decisions about solving marital problems. They should always seek their own professional advice that takes into account their own personal circumstances before making a marriage decision. Have a story to tell? Need expert advice? Feel free to reach out to us at contact: askanexpert@tuko.co.ke with "Ask an Expert" in the subject line. Recently married lady earns more than hubby In another story, a woman opened up about her awkward moment with her husband after he made a humble request for her. The woman disclosed that her husband asked her to foot house expenses so that he could cater for his projects. She, however, declined the request, saying her man was still legally married to his first wife and had struggled to divorce her. 

by  Susan Mwenesi