5 Statements that prove a man is wasting your time- Sam West

 

Ever been in a relationship that isn't moving?

Truth is some men intentionally waste your time as they weigh in their options

Motivational speaker and Pastor Sam West has shared statement that help identify when a man is wasting your time.

1.Let's go with the flow

That statement  is used by a man who has no objective or future plans regarding your relationship.

It is important for a man to be vocal about where the relationship is leading.

2. Let's keep this relationship a secret

This phrase is mostly by people who are already in other relationships and do not want to be exposed.

When a man asks you to keep a relationship a secret, be very careful as there may be other people you are sharing him with.

3. Let's not rush things

We have seen people in relationships for more than five years in the hope of being identified as the one.

By the first year a man knows whether he wants you in his life or not.

The next time a man suggests this, just dump him.

4. Prove to me you love me through sex

Gone are the days when sex was used as a way to prove you love someone.

If a man does not respect your decision to abstain,then he does not love you and is only after sex.

5. He is always busy

He is either married or is seeing someone else.

A man who loves you will do anything and everything possible to come see you.

BY  PENINAH NJOKI