My baby daddy ran away from me when my child was just two weeks old. I later met a man who loved me and my child like his own. We got married, and he managed to build a house in my child’s name. My child is nine years old this year. My baby daddy reappeared out of the blue a few months ago, and I’ve been sleeping with him. As I write this, I’m pregnant, and I suspect he’s the father. He’s now a successful businessman and wants to be part of our child’s life. He also asked me to leave my husband so he can marry me. He showed me the ring he bought for me. To be honest, I never stopped loving him. He’s my first real love, and I always prayed for him to come back. My problem is that I don’t know how to tell my husband that I want a divorce. He’s just a teacher, but he took care of us all these years and has done tremendous things for us. I feel guilty because I don’t think I ever loved him. He’s a good man, and that is tearing me apart for the betrayal going on, but I am only human and can’t pretend anymore. Please don’t judge me. I need advice, not insults.
Relationship expert warns about karma Pastor T is the lead minister at Life Church Limuru and The Gathering of Champions. He is the founder and president of the Truth Mentorship Society and TV host of the Angaza Show on KBC. Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, Pastor T said the lady met her current husband in survival mode. He warned her against leaving the man for a man who betrayed her. “If a man left you with a two-week-old child, there are many reasons. What says he won’t leave you again? Marriage is not about finances but values. If the teacher embraced you with your chaos, he truly cares about you. Finding a man who can care for you and your child is rare.” Pastor T urged the woman to do away with the survival mindset while warning that what goes around comes around.“Nine years is a long time to dismiss a relationship.” On the pregnancy, Pastor T said: “She already betrayed her husband the moment she started sleeping around. The person who cared about her is the one who will get hurt. She owes the man an apology.” Do you have a story to tell? Want an expert’s advice? Please email us at askanexpert@tuko.co.ke with ‘Ask an expert’ in the subject line. Disclaimer: Advice given in this article is general and is not the views of TUKO.co.ke. It is not intended to influence a reader’s decisions. Readers are advised to seek professional help before making any decisions. How cheating spouses hide their lover’s names Mobile phones are the go-to devices for unfaithful partners, and they go to extremes to hide their affairs. A cheat will most likely not save the clandestine lover’s name out rightly. It’ll be too obvious. TUKO.co.ke listed how to identify the secret lovers.
by William Osoro
