Man Confused as Wife Who Went to UK for 2-Year Studies Wants Divorce: "Hatakii Niambie Mtu"

 

A married father of two is at a crossroads on whether or not to trust his wife's words or his instincts.  The man is faced with a challenging decision after his wife, who initially left for the UK on a two-year scholarship, has been abroad for four years and is now pushing for a divorce. Wife has stayed 4 years instead of 2 The man says it all began when his wife successfully secured scholarships for a two-year program in the United Kingdom. However, despite their initial agreement, she has not returned home, citing various challenges overseas. Things took a dramatic turn when, before the end of last year, the wife met a white man who promised her a better life, including financial stability and the opportunity to stay in the UK. Wife wants divorce In an unexpected twist, the wife sent divorce papers to her husband, requesting his signature to formalise the end of their marriage. The man says his wife explained to him that the new man had offered her these opportunities on the condition that she would divorce her current spouse and marry him. "She told me I should act along because through the white man, she will have more opportunities over there and also have financial stability," he wrote. On the one hand, he wants to support his wife's quest for a better life, while on the other, he faces the prospect of losing his marriage and the impact it may have on their children. Social media reactions The husband is torn between his love for his wife, the well-being of their two children, and the difficult choice of either signing the divorce papers or risking his wife's potential deportation. "If I didn't sign it, she might be deported anytime. She also warned me not to tell anyone, including our families, because we should make it a secret," he continued. The implications of the decision are now weighing heavily on the husband, who is torn between the moral and practical dimensions of the situation. Kelvin: "Don't sign it until she is deported. Once she arrives home, sign it immediately. She is playing dirty politics." PC Jnr: "I see you don't listen, you were instructed not to tell anyone, yet you're now telling the whole wide world." Bukky Ariyo "A greedy man will sign it. Sign because of money she promised? Man, if you truly love her, don't. What if she doesn't come back to you and the children again?" Man breaks doors over phone Elsewhere, a middle-aged man broke two doors in his house after his wife locked herself in the bedroom with his phone. The mother of two ran away with her man's phone when he innocently gave her to talk to a relative who had called to check on them. According to the woman, the incident has caused tension in their household, as the husband has since refused to talk to her.

by  Hillary Lisimba