Pastor T Mwangi has advised women who will support them when things get hard.
Giving an example of himself, T shared how his wife supported him as she was earning more than him.
“Look for a visionary man or woman, not a financially stable one. Job hupotea,” He advised
Further added that his wife supported most of their bills when she was earning more than him.
“She used to tell me, “We are married. It’s our money. It is just that I went out and God blessed me.
Then her job ended, so hangeniitisha credit. The first time she asked me for KSh 50 for credit, I felt like a king. I gave her KSh 250.”
Pastor T said from their early life, he learned to table the income he made so that they could jointly budget for it.
“My wife used to earn more than me. Daily bread, monthly salary. I would find the fridge fully stocked and rent had been paid until I asked myself if I was the one who married her or she married me,”
Does that kind of support still exist?
“There are times one would be down and need help. In this generation, when some women are financially empowered, some look down on men. They rule and run relationships and, in the long run, hurt men’s egos. They do not understand about submission even when the man can no longer provide,” he noted.