Kenyan lady disappointed after man visited her empty-handed

 

A Kenyan lady has narrated how she was disappointed after inviting a man to her place.

The lady by the name Anelle Amani took to her Facebook account recounting how the man came to her place empty-handed which she said was a turn-off for her.

As usual, when someone is expecting a guest, Amani woke up early to clean the house and cook a nice meal for her guest.

She said the cooking took her five hours but she didn’t mind since she had a strong affection for the man.

However, when the man arrived, she was disappointed to see that he didn’t bring her anything.

“When he came, he just came empty-handed. Not even fruits in his hands. No shopping,” Amani said.

Immediately, Amani said she lost interest in the man but she still welcomed him.

“I served the food, we ate and drank. He is the black label guy so I went out of my way to get the drink for this man,” She said.

However, upon leaving, the man still didn’t leave anything for the lady.

“When he was leaving my house, he just left. No money,” she said.

According to Amani, she was upset by the man since she had been raised to visit people with something at hand.

“What I know and how I was raised is that you cannot visit people empty-handed because you are going to eat there and in case you go empty-handed, you have to leave some token behind,” Amani said.

“I judged that man completely and I immediately knew he was not someone I would want to establish anything with.”

Sharing screenshots of her conversations with the man, Amani ended up cutting him off completely because she felt he was not someone worth respecting.

“If I can feed you, what do I need you for? I also felt he did not appreciate me at all. I cooked guys. I cooked,” she said.

She praised Kalenjin and Luhya men adding that they will always bring food to the table.

“I have never seen these men fail to bring food. For me, my relationship rule is that you bring, I cook, you eat. I don't want a reverse of roles,” she said.

“I can't bring, cook, and a man eats. I lose respect for a man immediately the moment I am buying things and he consumes.”   BY THE STAR