Man Claims Kenyan Men Aren't Romantic, Says South African Guys Treat Women Well

 

Are Kenyan men stingy? The man said he had lived with the Zulu and Xhosa people for a while, claiming South African men are more romantic compared to their Kenyan counterparts. He claimed South African men simp a lot, and that is why women love them. "Grand gestures is the order of the day and it is applauded and encouraged. Women are made to feel special all the time. The girls I've pursued this side all tell me I can be a little mean, but that's just how I related with women back home, and daughters of Mumbi never called me mean. In fact, Kenyan women call me smooth," he posted on Reddit.com. He claimed cheating in the southern country was high compared to back home. "Some of you might be tempted to say that these simps must be losers but there's definitely more cheating on this side than in Kenya. So not only is simping encouraged, it is rewarded. This has been one of the biggest culture shocks I've experienced abroad."  He added: "Kusema tu ukweli(truth be told), Kenyan men are not romantic." His post elicited mixed reactions, and below are reactions from netizens. Mm_of_m said: "I lived in SA for 14 years, and I heard the opposite, that SA black men, especially Zulus, are not romantic, very traditional and patriarchal. I never had a problem hooking up with their women. Different perspectives. SuitableCancel0 said: "Your answer is in the last part. Simping is rewarded there. Here it's not." Careless_Peach5322 said: "I thought it was Nigerians who spoilt the market...but South Africans tow the line also? Nigerians spend on women. Especially the Yorubas but it's a cultural thing. What is funny is that their women think that is the norm." Imaginary-Shake7291 commented: "There are many factors involved. Our upbringing, tight budget and culture. And here, most women won't appreciate your effort." AffectionateLynx8768 said: "Women will always punish simps, always. There's a thin line between simping and being a gentleman, a very thin one. Most of the time when someone says you're mean, it means you did not meet their expectations, which is a good thing to self." New-Telephone3317 said: "Women call romantic men simps and do them dirty in Kenya anyway you look at it, it's the women's fault." Foreground69 said: "Kenyan men are, in fact, too romantic.Kuna mtu analipa school fees, rent, nails, hair, Fare doing too much.We should learn how to be like Nordics, there's no simping there." Shakilla says she prefers Nigerian men to Kenyan Kenyan women have, on several occasions, publicly declared their love for Nigerian men, and recently, socialite Shakilla dissed local men. According to Shakilla, she disliked Kenyan men and listed some of the reasons why. Shakilla then accused Kenyan men of being stingy. "A Kenyan man can never give you money. They would rather pay for something. They also don't look good," she said. The 20-year-old also praised Nigerians’ bedroom prowess, saying: "Kenyan guys don’t last in bed. They take minutes while I am talking about hours for Nigerian."     BY TUKO NEWS