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Zia Bett Nyamari, the wife of singer Nyashinski has opened up about mum’s guilt opining that it’s about finding balance.
Bonding over her experience with podcaster Sharon on the Best Kept Secrets Podcast, Zia said juggling motherhood and a career is tough.
Nandi Girl as she is referred to is doing the Keto weight loss challenge, she hits the gym early in the morning before going home for her other responsibilities.
The mum of two told of challenges with being a mother, wife, and running a business.
“I watched an interview with Shonda Rhimes about women not being able to do it all, because when you are working, you are feeling guilty when you are home you are feeling guilty coz there’s something you are not doing for work. so what happens is most of the time you are not present in what you are doing and I think only women face mum guilt, I do not know if men do have anything, they don’t have dad guilt because biblically they are supposed to provide, and protect, so them they are good.”
She is learning to navigate it.
“Even now I’m just thinking ok I need to pick up my son you know, but I think the key is trying to be present in every moment, if you are going to you are at home, be there and play with your kids do what you need to do, and be good for them there. when you go to work, you are going to work for them anyway in my mind I’m going to leave Zia and Dalia, by the way ….” she laughs pausing at that moment
The business is called Dalia by Zia.
She added that she has a baby line. “By the way, I have a baby line which is made from the offcuts of Zia Africa. It’s pretty new and when I work on those things in my mind this is what I am leaving for them. So that gives me some sort of comfort when I’m at work.”
The couple has never spoken about their children with only Nyashinski hinting they welcomed their second child early this year.