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Ugandan socialite Zari Hassan caused some consternation online among her loyal fans after she posted a message on her Snapchat account that raised some questions about her relationship with fellow Ugandan, Shakib Cham.
The mom of 5 shared a quote by Horacio Jones, speaking about trust issues that affect a relationship when a partner lies.
“Some people do not understand how poisonous lies are. Lies infect and curse happy relationships to the point where you actually feel sick to your stomach for trusting them again,” she started.
She went on to say how the lying causes permanent problems in the relationship as the partner who was lied to can never be really sure about what their partner is saying.
“No matter how much you love a person, sometimes you can’t help but feel like they stole your Comfort. You’re no longer comfortable because you second-guess everything. Now, trusting them isn’t effortless. It now requires a conscious effort and sometimes that’s exhausting.”
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The South African-based businesswoman has had some terrible luck in her relationship history as her second baby daddy Diamond was also an unrepentant skirt-hound when he was with her.
Her relationship with Diamond ended in 2018 something she spoke about in March last year. She said that he had tried everything she could to keep her marriage together before finally giving up.
Zari admitted that she knew Diamond had been unfaithful during the second episode of the new ‘Young, Famous, and African’ show, which premiered on March 18, 2022, but she decided to let things go for the “sake of peace.”
“Even the times when I knew you messed up, I would just keep silent for the sake of peace, for us to be happy, let it go, let it slide, move on, keep going, keep your family…” said Zari.
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Even after learning the truth, the reality star, who now lives in South Africa, said she would always defend Diamond’s bad deeds, but Diamond did not do the same for her.
The socialite went on to say that their two kids were also dragged online as the musician’s wandering crotch became the talk of town.
“You gave me away…Baba T you know I was here for you, like I would deny for you, I would take a bullet for you, but every time I did that for you, you did the opposite, me and your kids were being attacked, I had nowhere to hide,” she said.
She added that she would finally let go of the four-year marriage after she received proof of the singer’s infidelity.