Don’t fight for her ; Things men shouldn’t do for their women

I believe in love, well to some extent and I also believe in God’s word when it comes to two people leaving their parents and unite to become one.

 But as much as I do believe and support that, I tend to feel there are things that we as men have normalized when it comes to proving our love to our lovers, which are somewhat weird and completely show the exact opposite of being wise.

Below is a list of those things 

Fighting for her

I have a rule, I would and will never fight for a woman, before you roll your eyes I have a solid reason why. 

I would only fight for the woman I love ONLY if she’s being attacked but not defending her for her stupidity or even fighting a fellow man over her.

Quit on his dreams for her

Most of these 21st century movies tend to mislead the boychild into thinking that is normal and ok to abandon your dreams in order to impress a woman or woe a woman you are in love with. Put yourself first young king.

Build her a home before his

The only time I would risk my hard earned money, savings or even drown in loans in order to build a woman a home is for my mother. I will only build a woman a home only after I have put a ring on it, not by the mere fact of her being my baby mama.

Risk his life for hers

You see how you watch those men on TV willing to put their health or even lives at risk in the name of love? 

Well the only person that should see you get rained on, jump out of a moving car or take a bullet for is either your mom, sister or your daughter. After all even your wife will re-marry once you are gone.